Published inAsk a Narcissistask a narcissist #3: how do i stop hurting?I have to admit at the outset that this question wasn’t sent to me specifically, not at first. It was written by a friend of mine, who has…Dec 8, 2021Dec 8, 2021
Published inAsk a Narcissistask a narcissist #2: how do you know what you’re worth?As my Trusts lecturer once said after more than a dozen students demanded his resignation: well, I’m back.Nov 28, 2021Nov 28, 2021
Published inAsk a Narcissistask a narcissist #1: how to be a good personWelcome to the very first Ask a Narcissist! I am so excited to try this out and I’m grateful beyond words to the people who have helped…Nov 4, 2021Nov 4, 2021
if art imitated life(this was first published in 2017 on facebook; I reproduce it here because it is timely.)Apr 8, 2018Apr 8, 2018
conversations in the key of b-minor“you’re so brave,” she says, clutching at her own hair reflexively, as though the act of me having cut mine off will make hers disappear as…Feb 28, 2018Feb 28, 2018
marriage equality is a muslim issueI am gay and I am muslim, and I support marriage equality not because I am gay but because I am muslim.Sep 19, 2017Sep 19, 2017
I am totally not okay and that’s (kind of) fineI don’t remember how old I was when I first started showing symptoms of depression, but I will never forget how old I was when someone…Sep 14, 2017Sep 14, 2017